The Basics of Bridal Shower Etiquette

April 8, 2011

Bridal Shower giftsWith spring comes weddings, lots and lots of weddings. And if you know someone who is tying the knot in the next few months, you’re probably invited to a bridal shower (or two…or three). And if you’re the maid of honor—and it’s your first time with this honor—you probably have a few bridal shower etiquette questions.

Q: Who should host the bridal shower?
A: Traditionally, the maid or matron of honor hosts the wedding shower.

Q: When should a bridal shower be held?
A: At least 4 – 6 weeks before the wedding.

Q: Who should be invited to the shower?
A: Showers are intimate gatherings for people close to the bride—not a way to fill the kitchen cupboards! If you’re planning the shower, ask the bride for a guest list. Don’t invite anyone to the shower who is not invited to the wedding.

Q: Does the hostess traditionally bring a gift for the bride?
A: Yes. It is customary for the hostess to get the bride a gift for the shower, along with the guests.

Q: How much should I spend on a gift?
A: Appropriate gift etiquette is to give as much as you can afford. The average price range for a bridal shower gift is anywhere from $20 – $100.

Q: When does the bride open her gifts?
A: Gifts are opened at the bridal shower. The bridesmaids typically take notes during this time so that the bride has a reference of who gave her what, to use when writing her personal thank-you notes.

BONUS: Just For the Bride

During the bridal shower, be sure to personally thank each guest individually. Thank them not only for coming to the shower, but also for the gift.

Be sure to send thank-you notes to all the shower guests, as well as those who couldn’t attend, but sent a gift. Thank you notes should be sent out within 48 hours of the bridal shower. I know it sounds obvious, but please don’t email your thank-you notes. Even though weddings are becoming more and more casual, there are some things—like handwritten thank you notes—that will always be in style.

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2 Responses to The Basics of Bridal Shower Etiquette

  1. LillaClip.com: April 8, 2011 at 12:02 pm

    Simple and to the point article. Great tips for the bride, hostess and her guests!

  2. Margaret: April 8, 2011 at 12:04 pm

    Thank you so much! It’s that time of year again. Glad you enjoyed the article. Appreciate you stopping by and sharing your thoughts! Have a great weekend!

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