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February 21, 2016
Texting can be a wonderful and convenient way to communicate, but in business, it poses new questions of etiquette and protocol – the when, what and how to use it wisely.
Keep these simple text etiquette tips in mind to ensure you’ll never annoy others or embarrass yourself.
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Posted by Margaret Page in Business Etiquette and tagged text messaging etiquette, text etiquette
February 1, 2016
The way you conduct yourself through social media is a direct reflection on who you are as a professional. Yes, your reputation is on the line every time you send a tweet or post a photo to your Facebook page. Everything you share online can potentially be captured for the entire world to see!
To easily avoid gaffes and maintain your professional dignity and social grace, follow these 6 “Rs” of social media manners:
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January 5, 2016
Coworking – where professionals share one workplace environment – has become an increasingly popular style of work in recent years. A coworking space is typically in an enhanced “coffee shop” type setting, but with more multi-functional workspaces. Unlike a typical office environment, those who are coworking are not usually employed by the same organization. They are working independently, but in very close quarters. Just as in a traditional office setting, it’s important that members of a coworking space understand the etiquette of working side-by-side.
To get the most success out of your coworking experience, here are seven etiquette tips:
Tip #1: Notice the noise
Does your coworking space carry a loud din of noise? Are most people having normal-toned conversations, meetings or phone calls? Or do you find it to be more library-like, where people speak in whispers or conduct quiet meetings in closed-door conference rooms? Observe and then match your sound level to that of your coworking space.
Tip #2: Be considerate of others
If you are at a shared table, use just one chair and keep your items contained to your space. Also, people are there to work, not to fill you in on the Wi-Fi password. The coworking staff is there to help with items like finding an outlet to charge your computer or fixing problems with the printer or coffee machine; however, know your boundaries. The office manager of the coworking space is not your personal assistant.
Tip #3: Keep headphones handy
Wear headphones to drown out the noise, and to help you concentrate on your tasks. As much as you love your tunes, avoid humming or singing along with the music. When someone is wearing headphones or ear buds, it’s a sign that they do not want to be disturbed.
Tip #4: Clean up after yourself
Did you just take the last cup of coffee? Make a fresh pot! Refrain from leaving dirty dishes in the sink. If you spill something on your desk, take the time to thoroughly clean it up. Eat your lunch in the break room rather than at your desk to prevent crumbs and other sticky residue from getting on work surfaces. At the end of your workday, pack up your things, put trash and recyclables in their respective bins and leave your space as nice as or better than you found it.
Tip #5: Bring your own supplies
If you forgot to bring your own coffee mug, use a disposable cup rather than using someone else’s ceramic mug. Refrain from eating or drinking anything from the fridge, unless you put it there. Just as if you were headed to a traditional office, bring along everything you will need for the day – including snacks!
Tip #6: Build connections
Take advantage of the networking opportunities that coworking offers. Make a point to get to know the others sharing the space. Coworking spaces often host events for members—giving everyone a chance to socialize, get to know their projects, products and ideas. That person sitting next to you might be someone who is looking for your expertise, or who could help you on a project you’re working on.
Also, do your best to get to know the owner of the space. Owners are always interested in learning about the companies and individuals who are utilizing their facility. You’ll likely create some excellent, mutually beneficial professional relationships.
Have you ever worked in a coworking space? If so, I’d love to hear your additional tips!
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Posted by Margaret Page in Business Etiquette and tagged coworking etiquette
May 15, 2015
The Victoria Day and Memorial Day long weekends are almost here! Both holidays offer extended time to enjoy fun, outdoor cookouts with family and friends. Want to make your BBQ a great success?
Here are some tips to ensure that your outdoor grilling is a success:
For Hosts:
- Seating – Ensure that there is enough comfortable seating for everyone attending, indoors and out. Make the seating conducive to conversations amongst your guests.
- Food – Count up your RSVPs to ensure you have enough food and drink for everyone attending. Most people cook hamburgers and hotdogs at cookouts, so be sure to have a vegetarian option for any guests that are not meat-eaters.
- Drink – Provide plenty of water and juice. Alcoholic beverages, especially beer, are popular, so be careful about offering too much. Ensure that any guests that have overindulged have safe rides home.
- Grill – Make sure the grill is clean well before guests arrive. Also make sure you have enough fuel (propane or charcoal) to cook all of the food you plan to barbeque.
- Utensils – Refrain from using any rusty or dirty barbeque utensils. Also, to keep food safe, use two sets of utensils and platters, one for raw and the other for cooked foods. Make sure not to mix them up!
For Guests:
- Timing – Arrive early only if your host is aware and you plan on helping to set up and prep food. Arriving a bit after the scheduled time is perfectly fine. Also, avoid overstaying your welcome late in the evening, unless you plan on helping to clean up.
- What to bring? – Even if host says to bring nothing, bring something. Side dishes are great idea. Be sure to bring enough of your dish to feed everyone. Also, if you bring it, leave it. It’s cumbersome for you and the host to gather up your half-eaten container and half-full bottle of wine at the end of your visit.
- What to wear? – Casual, tasteful outfits are appropriate. If it is a work-related cookout, then go with business casual.
- Grill – Avoid touching or taking over the grill unless the host asks for help.
- Drink – It’s easy to get dehydrated on warm days. Drink plenty of fluids, and be careful with alcoholic beverages. These will dehydrate you further and can be even more potent when you’re sitting in the sun. Avoid embarrassing yourself or your host by overindulging.
- Clean up – Even if your host declines, it’s a customary kindness to offer help in cleaning up here and there throughout your stay.
I wish all of you fun in the sun and an enjoyable holiday weekend. Cheers!
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Posted by Margaret Page in Everyday Etiquette and tagged Victoria Day long weekend, holiday weekend, BBQ etiquette
February 27, 2015
We all have a few interesting stories regarding things we’ve witnessed in public washrooms. Those experiences sometimes having you shaking your head – really! Nonetheless, it is important to be respectful of others anytime you use a public space, especially if you are at work or a conference where colleagues can observe your behavior. Here are some of my tips to ensure the utmost in courtesy and cleanliness in this most necessary and vital of places.
- Offer privacy – If you find one stall occupied in an otherwise empty bathroom, do your best to avoid the stalls directly beside the one being used. Even though it is a public restroom, it is a courtesy to at least offer the illusion of privacy to others utilizing the space. Bonus points to those businesses that offer music in their restrooms.
- Have business conversations elsewhere – Talking “shop” between the stalls is not only awkward for those having the conversation, it is impolite to others in the same room. Save the discussion for a more appropriate place.
- Refrain from cell phone use – Do you really want to carry on a conversation with someone while use the facilities! You’re more professional than that! And then there’s the germs… think about that!
- Use a toilet seat cover – In the United States, toilet seat covers are mandatory in a public bathroom and I look forward to the day that Canada follows suit. If you are lucky enough to find yourself in a stall that offers such a nicety, use it!
- Leave the toilet as you would like to find it – Perhaps you’ve heard the cute rhyme, “If you sprinkle, when you tinkle…” As you may (unfortunately) know, sitting on a damp toilet seat is a terrible experience. Please take a moment to ensure the next user will not have to deal with such an impropriety. I know this is a really corny phrase but: “Be a sweetie, wipe the seatie.”
- Remember to flush – How often have you walked into a stall to find a previous occupant’s flushable seat cover still sitting on the seat? Even if you are using an automatic toilet, always glance back and make sure everything has flushed away.
- Wash your hands – In professional business environment, you are shaking hands with many people. Do yourself and your colleagues a favor by following this most critical rule: After using the toilet, it is imperative that you wash your hands with soap– first! The recommendation is to wash your hands as long as it takes you to sing the first verse of Happy Birthday. If there is only one sink and someone is waiting to wash his or her hands, move away for a moment. You can apply your makeup or fix your hair when they are done.
- Check the counter – At a recent conference, after washing my hands, I took a paper towel and wiped off the water I had accidentally splashed outside the sink. One of the event planners came in and scolded me saying it was the janitor’s job. However, I always make a point of leaving the counter dry for the next person. I will continue to do so! Why? This simple courtesy will prevent others from getting their shirtsleeves, conference programs, portfolios, handbags etc. soaked with water.
My mantra is to leave things as nice as (or better) than you found them. Today’s building design regulations, such as automatic faucets, soap, towel dispensers, and seat covers, have made huge strides in improving public restroom cleanliness and hygiene. That, combined with proper restroom etiquette will make it a more comfortable, approachable place for all.
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Posted by Margaret Page in Everyday Etiquette and tagged restroom etiquette
February 16, 2015
Achoo! The familiar sound of flu season! The flu is spreading like wildfire through offices, schools, and entire communities this time of year. Whether you’re the one who’s sick or the one trying to remain healthy (while working in close proximity to those who are not), being considerate of others is key to reducing the chances of sharing the flu bug.
If you are sick:
- Stay home! If you have flu-like symptoms, stay home for at least 24 hours after your fever is gone, recommends the CDC. Besides the fact that you’re minimizing the spread of germs, you’re getting the rest you need to get rid of the flu bug.
- If you must venture out of the house, refrain from shaking hands with anyone. If someone offers his or her hand, simply say, “I’m sorry, I’m not feeling 100 percent today. I don’t want to get you sick.”
- Avoid sharing confined spaces with fellow employees, if there is a flu outbreak at your office. If you must have that meeting, suggest conducting it via the web instead of a small (confined) conference room.
- If you have to sneeze or cough, cover your nose and mouth with a tissue. Dispose of the tissue and wash (or sanitize) your hands immediately. Handkerchiefs arenot sanitary, especially if you use them and then put them back into your purse or pocket for re-use later. If a tissue is not available, sneeze into your elbow rather than your bare hands.
- Avoid using your colleague’s computer, mouse, phone, pens or anything else that they would handle with their own hands.
- It’s more important than ever to wash your hands often. Scrub your hands with warm soapy water for at least 20 seconds.
If you are well, but work in close proximity to someone who is sick:
- Germs can easily enter your system through your eyes, mouth and nose—any time of year, so it’s important to keep your hands away from your face. This can be a tough habit to break, but if you can train yourself to not touch anything above your neck, you will minimize your risk of getting sick.
- This goes without saying, but whenever you’re in a public place, make it a habit to wash your hands, often. Proper hand washing is the best way to reduce the spread of germs.
- Keep sanitizers handy – and use them. Wiping down the office hotspots – such as your keyboard, desktop and doorknobs –will kill those germs that are just waiting for you. Keep a spray bottle at your desk and a packet of wipes with you at all times.
- Wash your coffee cup with hot, soapy water. A quick rinse isn’t going to remove any contamination from germs floating around your office.
- Use disposable as opposed shared eating utensils, dishes and linens in the office kitchen. You never know quite how clean those re-used items are.
- Keep your distance! Limit your interactions with a coworker who comes to the office sick. A person who has the flu can pass it on to you as far as six feet away.
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Posted by Margaret Page in Everyday Etiquette and tagged flu etiquette, hand washing tips
February 5, 2015
Ah, the water cooler. It’s not only where can you grab a drink of water at work, it’s also where you’ll likely get all of the latest news from your fellow colleagues. With so many people quenching their thirst for both, it’s a high-traffic locale that certainly demands proper etiquette. To avoid becoming a topic of discussion at this most communal of places, here are some good etiquette tips to follow:
Form a line – First come, first served. If people are simply conversing and seem oblivious that you are waiting to fill your cup, politely ask, “Excuse me, may I please get a drink of water?” They’ll quickly make way for you.
Bottle vs. Cup – Observe and be considerate of others around you. If you are filling a gigantic water bottle and someone is waiting to fill his or her small water glass, take a break and let that person go in front of you. It will only take a short time for them to get their fill.
Avoid touching the water nozzle/spigot – Refrain from touching these with your fingers, lips or even the edge of your water bottle. With cold and flu season in full swing, it’s important to avoid and prevent the spread of any germs.
Replace the empty jug – If you were the lucky one to get the last glass of water from the cooler, then you are the lucky one responsible for replacing the jug. If you aren’t fit to lift a 5-gallon jug, find a friendly colleague who is willing and able to help you.
Replace the disposable cups – If you were fortunate enough to get the last cup, take a moment to refill the stock. Your thirsty co-workers will thank you!
Put trash in the trashcan – If you are using a water fountain, refrain from spitting out your gum or leaving any other garbage, such as used cups, in or on the receptacle. Leaving gum, spit or any other trash in a water fountain basin would be very discourteous to other users
Find a sink – Need to dump your old coffee? Rinse your soup bowl? Wash your hands? These are tasks that require a proper sink basin and drain. Be considerate of your co-workers and keep the water fountain and cooler clean and neat for the soul purpose of obtaining a drink of beloved H2O.
Clean up spills – If you spilled some water, grab a few paper towels and clean it up. Not only are you kindly removing your mess, you are also removing a potential hazard.
Following these simple rules will go a long way for maintaining your professionalism and respect in the workplace. Cheers to you!
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January 29, 2015
With boxes of heart-shaped chocolates filling the shelves at every grocery store, and carts filled with red roses at every florist’s stand, Valentine’s Day is a day that is hard to go unnoticed.
In the busy lifestyles that we all lead, it’s no surprise how many romances begin at the office water cooler. Although romance is in the air this time of the year, it’s good to keep a few etiquette cues in mind if you ever find yourself in an office romance.
Play by the rules
Find out what your company’s policies are on the topic of office relationships. Some companies are more traditional and have zero tolerance when it comes to “fraternization,” whereas other companies are more lenient.
Watch your PDA (public displays of affection)
You’re at work, not on a date. While it’s tempting to flash a smile across the boardroom, public displays of affection are inappropriate in a business setting. Bottom line: hands off until you’re off the clock! Engaging in PDA is rude to your fellow coworkers and it also shows a lack of professionalism and respect for the organization.
Skip the love notes
Companies put a lot of time and resources into building their employee’s communication skills to ensure they are able to be productive and efficient in their work. However, when it comes to communicating romance in the office, its best to stay away from in-person and online “intimate” conversations.
As tempting as it is to send a quick and flirtatious e-mail to your office sweetheart, remember that you are on company time and companies have access to employee e-mails. The risk of accidentally sending a department-wide e-mail that was only intended for your new love interest is a scary thought! Getting the “pink slip” for this reason is simply not worth it.
Keep it quiet
Revealing to a colleague why you’ve had an extra twinkle or two in your eyes may seem innocent, but be careful when it comes to discussing any details about your office romance. If you really need to share, be very careful in choosing your office confidante. If you have decided to go against your company’s dating policies, we strongly recommend keeping the details of your relationship to yourself. Gossip spreads fast, even in the most modest and conservative offices!
When sharing any relationship details, keep in mind that the other person in the relationship is also your confidante’s coworker. Think about how work relationships would be affected by sharing details of your love life with coworkers.
Keep your distance
Being within close quarters of each other at work can be an invitation for trouble. Requesting a department change for one of you might be the best option. The goal is to keep everyone in the game happy – especially the company.
If you work in separate departments, keep it this way. While keeping each other company during lunch is okay, frequent water cooler or restroom breaks will raise eyebrows.
Though there are complications to consider before you commit to an office romance, it can be an exciting time of your life. Especially during this time of year when love is in the air!
Happy Valentine’s Day!
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Posted by Margaret Page in Everyday Etiquette and tagged Valentine's Day etiquette, office romance etiquette
January 23, 2015
According to the National Elevator Industry, elevators in the United States make 18 billion passenger trips per year and on average, each elevator carries 20,000 people in that timeframe. That is a lot of trips with a lot people in a very tight, awkward space. And I wonder how many of those trips are spent in silence? Crammed into a tiny box, we zip from one floor to another, staring forward, trying our best to ignore the fact that we’re shoulder to shoulder with complete strangers!
While I’ve already written about elevator etiquette in the past, here are some additional surefire tips on how to make the elevator experience less awkward for everyone:
- If you are in a tall building, and you only need to navigate from one floor to the next, take the stairs (if you can.) You’ll save yourself dirty looks from fellow passengers who are trying to make their way to the upper floors, while doing your body good by taking the stairs.
- Be aware of your surroundings. If you walk into the elevator lobby, note if the button has already been pushed and if people are already waiting. Don’t be “that guy” that hits the lit button again and subsequently jumps in front of everyone else that was patiently waiting. First to arrive, first to load.
- When waiting for the elevator, stand to one side to allow others to exit before you board.
- If the elevator looks full when the doors open, don’t just push your way on. Smile and kindly ask, “Any room for me?” More often than not, people will make a bit of room for you. If they do, be sure to thank them! If there isn’t room, they’ll likely shake their heads and give you a “sorry” shrug. Say “thank you,” and then step back and to one side to wait for the next elevator.
- I know you’re hungry but refrain from eating on an elevator. Besides the obvious fact that it’s impolite to eat standing up on an elevator filled with people, do you really want to risk arriving on your floor with ketchup on your tie?
- Do your best to face the door. This is a neutral, parallel direction that most of your fellow passengers will (likely) be facing. If you walk on to an elevator and keep your back to the door, you’ll find yourself in an awkward, confrontational standing position with the rest of people on board.
- Say “good morning” or another pleasant greeting as you enter the elevator. This makes the ride a little more pleasant by breaking the tension of being in an enclosed space with a group of strangers! It’s also a good practice if you’re shy or uncomfortable talking to new people. Take this opportunity to engage in small talk. Something like, “What a beautiful day it is today.” You’ll find your networking skills will improve the more often you get outside of your comfort zone.
- If you are at the back of a crowded elevator and it is approaching your floor, announce in a polite, friendly voice “My floor is next.” It sets the expectation for others on board and they will typically make room for you to exit.
- Elevator operators are a rarity nowadays, so you should be ready to take the helm if you are closest to the control panel. To prevent passengers from reaching across or over others, smile and say “Good morning! What floor do you need?”
- When the elevator is full, the people closest to the door exit first. Otherwise, women exit first
Do you have any interesting elevator etiquette tips you’d like to share? Please leave a reply and share!
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Posted by Margaret Page in Everyday Etiquette and tagged elevator etiquette
January 15, 2015
“Feeling gratitude and not expressing it is like wrapping a gift and not giving it” ~ William Arthur Ward.
Many people are forming good habits in the New Year, such as exercising and eating right. I encourage you to add just one more – a simple daily dose of gratitude. It is an amazingly rewarding way of cultivating kindness, and January is the perfect month to start this new habit—it’s National Thank You Month!
Thank you notes can be sent anytime to anyone to let them know you appreciate them. Here’s the bonus: the amount of effort required to show gratitude is easier than exercising and eating right. In fact, one of my goals last year was to send at least one card a day. I thanked people not only for their gifts, but also for other kind gestures like taking the time to meet for lunch or for showing good leadership skills or supporters of my work. I was, and continue to be, successful in my daily thank you note endeavor. I know what you’re thinking – that you have no time to craft, much less send, a personal note. I use Send Out Cards (which I truly love!). You choose a card template, enter a quick personal message add your own photo, and then simply click SEND. Send Out Cards takes it from there by printing and mailing your heartfelt meaningful message for you.
Just think how delighted one would be to receive your beautiful, personalized note from you.
In addition to sending thank you notes, here are some other quick tips for celebrating National Thank You Month:
- Take a few minutes to think and reflect on all that you have to be thankful for. It could be a call from an old friend to the fresh air you breathe. When you really think about it, the list can be endless!
- Start a gratitude journal. Every day, write down at least one thing you are grateful for. Over time, you will have manifested a fantastic new habit and a thoughtful record of all your many blessings.
- Create an attitude of gratitude. Know that it is not how much you have, but how you feel about what you have that makes the difference. Let people know throughout the day you are grateful that they are doing their job. I’ll bet the bus driver, policeman or barista that makes your coffee would like to hear you appreciate them being on the job.
- Connect with others who are also grateful for what they have, not just in the workplace but in personal relationships as well. These are the people that have positive energy, are inspiring and they cheerfully impact people in valuable ways.
Take note of the warm feelings you get from expressing gratitude. Be thankful, not only in January, but throughout the year to those that mean the most to you. Letting people know just how important and special they are takes just a bit of effort, yet has massive rewards.
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