5 Simple Ways to Remember Names
February 3, 2012
There are few situations that will make people squirm more than running into someone they know, and have met several times, and drawing a blank on their name.
If this has happened to you, rest assured, you’re not alone. Remembering names is something many people struggle with—and yet it’s one of the most important things you can do to connect with others. Being able to use someone’s name (and pronounce it correctly) can set you apart and show you are interested in them.
So how do you remember names when you’re introduced to dozens of people at a function or business meeting?
Start with these five tips to remembering names and you will be in great shape!
- Pay attention. First and foremost, pay attention when you meet someone. Really listen to their name and how it is pronounced. Often, when we meet someone, there is a lack of focus on what is important—such as the person’s name. We can be so busy thinking of what they are going to say AFTER the greeting, we totally miss the important details.
- Repeat the person’s name. When introduced, repeat the person’s name out loud. For example, “It’s wonderful to meet you, Tzaddi.” Use the person’s name during conversation. This will reinforce your memory, as well as make that person feel important.
- Remember a unique detail about the person. Many of us are visual learners, so associating something physical with a person will help us remember. Laura has brilliant green eyes, the greenest you’ve ever seen. Tuck that detail away, associated with her name. The next time you see Laura, you’ll notice her green eyes and it will help you recall her name.
- Repeat the name to yourself. If you’ve just met a group of people, and now you’ve stepped away, look toward the group and quietly repeat their names to yourself.
- Write the name down as soon as you can. If you are not presented with a business card, write the name down as soon as you can in a notebook or journal. This will provide a good reminder for future meetings.
You can master the name game! Once you make this a priority, it will become a habit that will put you miles ahead of the competition.
“A person’s name is to him or her the sweetest and most important sound in any language.” ~ Dale Carnegie.
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